February 1, 2020

Shared Experiences: Are They the Key to Teamwork?

I buried my dad a couple years ago. Dad joined the Marines at 19 and was honorably discharged two years later. I do not believe anything in my dad’s military career of two years was noteworthy. What WAS noteworthy to my Dad about the Marines were things like boot camp. […]
December 31, 2019

How Extra Ordinary Becomes Extraordinary.

“Mary, wrap my shawl around him and lie him down here. He will be safe and warm for the night. I bet he will fall asleep right away. The mom was nervous about her son’s comfort, but dad was right, the child went right to sleep.   More on that scene […]
October 4, 2019

Discouraged? Two Cures.

I imagine everyone gets discouraged. Seems so normal. But ongoing discouragement is dangerous, needless and pointless.  When you are discouraged, do two things. Expand your view and act now. Expand your view is evocative of a telescopic focus. A telescope can focus in very closely or pull out for the […]
July 1, 2019

How quickly can your life change?

Can one transform oneself from a negative to a positive person rapidly?By any chance, do others view you as negative?Someone at your work is the most negative; would you rank amongst the candidates?Do you help others see the good aspects of work or indeed of their lives?  There are two […]
March 12, 2019

Train Your Brain to be Positive, Productive, Fresh and Enthusiastic.

The primary way you train your brain is through your spoken word. The way you self-describe, or how you refer to your employer or your family determines how your brain views reality.
February 6, 2019

Coach to the Talent On Your Team

The closest circumstance to a meritocracy we have in our orbit is found in the world of sports. With few exceptions, sports teams field the finest talent with the highest chance of success. A baseball manager or football coach in the professional ranks who does NOT get fired is the […]
January 8, 2019

Does Your Team Drink the Kool-Aid or Make the Kool-Aid?

If a colleague tells you that you drink the Kool-Aid, the likelihood is that the comment is not a compliment. My opinion. You may disagree, and I’ll concede that maybe it’s meant positively. In general, though, drinking the Kool-Aid is pejorative. What about if you get to make the Kool-Aid? […]
August 22, 2018

Is It Okay if I Smoke While I Pray? No? May I Pray While I Smoke?

“Pope Francis, is it okay if I smoke while I pray?” “No my Son. That is a bit sacrilegious. Focus your attention on your prayer.” or “Pope Francis, is it okay if I pray while I smoke?” “Yes my son. Prayer at any time is a blessing.” Do these two […]
April 10, 2018

Is It In Your Nature To Prevail

Is it in your nature to prevail? When you noticed that headline what was your initial reaction? Your response will say much about how our brain is trained. If you are comfortable in a victim status, you don’t expect to prevail. Dealt a bad hand so-to-speak. How can you win? […]
December 1, 2017

It’s My Life

There is no sense addressing motivation without acknowledging there has to be a link between what you feel and what you do. You can feel that your life is important, that you’re not going to live forever, that you have one chance on this rock. Yet if it doesn’t translate […]